Coping With Stress and Staying Connected

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COVID has greatly disrupted the lives of older adults. In addition to the threat of the disease itself, many older adults are experiencing increased loneliness, stress, and anxiety.

Here are some tips for coping with stress in a healthy way to help get you through challenging times like this.

Healthy tips for coping with stress

Take a news break

  • It’s good to stay informed of what’s going on in your community and the world. But constantly hearing about the pandemic can cause you stress.
  • Try to limit watching, reading, or listening to news stories to once a day

Take a physical break

  • Take a few minutes to unwind by doing activities you enjoy, such as listening to music or gardening.
  • Take deep breaths and stretch to relieve stress and tension.
  • Meditation can help you relax and calm down. It can also improve your mood. Meditation commonly involves:
    • Getting into a comfortable position (such as sitting or lying down) in a quiet room or place where you won’t be distracted
    • Focusing your attention, such as on a specially chosen word or set of words, an object, or the sensations of the breath
    • Keeping an open attitude by letting distractions come and go naturally without judging them.

Take care of your health

  • Try to eat healthy, well-balanced meals.
  • Don’t drink too much alcohol. Also avoid tobacco products and substance use. Substance use includes using illegal drugs and the improper or unhealthy use of a prescribed or over-the-counter medication.
  • Make time to unwind for the day and get plenty of sleep
  • Continue with routine preventive measures that your health care provider recommends, such as vaccinations and cancer screenings.
  • Get a COVID-19 vaccine as soon as you can.

Staying connected

Being in a pandemic doesn’t mean you have to disconnect from people. There are ways for you to still safely connect with your community:

  • You can connect online, through social media, or by phone or mail.
  • It’s also safe to meet people outdoors while wearing a mask, staying at least 6 feet apart from one another, and avoiding crowds.

Get interactive

  • Talk often with friends and family whether through a phone call or a video chat app like FaceTime, WhatsApp, or Google Duo. You can find instructions on how to use these technologies on the Internet. Type "how to use ________" in an internet search engine like Google.
  • Join an interactive online discussion group or book club. Or watch livestreams that are interesting to you that have live chats where you can talk directly to people.

Check in on your neighbors

  • From a safe distance, check in on your neighbors who live alone to ensure they are okay and spend some time interacting with them.
  • Strike up regular conversations on a set schedule or whenever you can find the time

During times of increased physical distancing, people can still maintain social connections and care for their mental health. The tools mentioned above can help reduce your stress and anxiety and stay connected to your family and community.

If you’re still facing challenges that are stressful, overwhelming, or causing strong emotions, reach out to organizations like How Right Now. This organization was created to address people’s feelings of grief, loss, and worry during COVID-19. This initiative offers information and support to help you cope and remain resilient through the COVID-19 pandemic.

For more information on coping with stress

Learn more about coping with stress. Visit the CDC website.